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Mental Edge
 
MENTAL EDGE NEWS                      March 2009

Guaranteed to improve the quality of your individual experience!

In This Issue
90 Day Parent Challenge
Testimonials
Athlete of the Month
The Truth is Intriguing
Battling the Play-off Nerves
90-Day
 
Parent
Challenge

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The Mental Edge invites you to participate in our 90-day Parenting Challenge. This challenge is intended to help you cultivate a High Impact relationship with your son or daughter.

As I tell all parents participating in our High Impact Parenting Series, asking quality questions opens up the possibility of a completely different kind of interaction with your child. With that in mind, you will be given a series of High Impact Questions for the next 90 days (30 days at a time) designed to open a door of understanding into your child's life that can give you a brand new perspective on who your child is and how you might adjust your parenting style to powerfully influence them.

To accept the 90-Day Challenge please click here:

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What they're saying about the Mental Edge...

 
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"Thank you so much for all of your support! You run a great program and it really helped me acheive all of my goals. Take care!"
                      ~Becky Kortum
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Our experience working with the Mental Edge has proven the additional life-altering benefits that your mentoring offers in addition to just the sport-specific goals you work on. It sounds crazy, but I truly believe that Shaun was an angel that came into our son's life to lead him down the right path. We were all in a dark place, crushed to think that
his dreams might have come to an end. We knew it wasn't life threatening and we knew things could be much worse. But we also saw a vulnerable, talented, driven kid with so much potential and commitment, on the verge of giving up and changing his life path out of desperation. It wasn't our place to try to convince him otherwise because we knew what he had gone through, but, we also knew the alternative could be very detrimental to his happiness. Shaun's approach truly was the answer, and the respect that our son had for him immediately was amazing. Equally important was Shaun's willingness to take our phone call from a parent you knew nothing about, regarding an ordinary 15 year old kid you knew nothing about and take the situation
seriously enough to help him before it was too late. This was impressive and very kind hearted, considering the caliber of athletes that you try to squeeze into Shaun's busy calendar. Thank you from the
bottom of my heart for that! Hockey aside, the life lessons that he has taken from this are invaluable and life changing. His renewed strength is amazing. The joke around our house is that I need "a Shaun" in my life. I think it's hardest on moms seeing their kids go through tough times! 
Thanks for everything!
                          ~ Parent

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"I watched my son the last two tourneys and he has really had great focus!   It's like he was like his old self prior to going to the U when I used to watch him as a junior.  It's like my real son is back! His progress has been fun to watch.  I hope you realize I think you really helped and he does too!  Thanks so much for your time and effort.     You'll always have a place in our family's heart."    ~ Parent
 
 
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"When we first met Justin Johnson at a State Bantam tournament a few years ago, he talked a little bit about The Mental Edge.  I remember thinking to myself, "This is exactly what my son needs!"  My son, Nolan, was one of our team's two goaltenders.  He had good skills, but was struggling with confidence issues and was having difficulty dealing with adversity.  Having majored in Psychology myself, I was keenly aware of the importance of mental preparation.  On the way home from the tournament, I talked with Nolan about The Mental Edge.  Always interested in improving his game, he was very interested in trying it out.  
 
All of Nolan's goaltending training has been valuable, but The Mental Edge training has clearly been the most effective.  I sat back and watched, with amazement, as his game consistently improved and his own satisfaction with his performance visibly increased over the next season.  He was having fun again!  Consequently, I became much more relaxed at his games.  I began to enjoy break-a-ways, because I knew he was going to make the save!
 
At the end of the season, Nolan received a hand-written note from his coach congratulating him on his performance during the season.  The coach went on to say, "Your consistency and confidence improved constantly, as did your skills."   His team members and other parents also noticed the difference.
 
Many of the mental strategies that he learned from Justin to improve his athletic skills are also excellent life skills that have helped him to become more assertive, responsible, and emotionally mature in his personal life.  The training he received from The Mental Edge was not only the best investment I have ever made in my son's athletic career, but also his emotional development.  I would strongly recommend this program to any athlete, especially the youth.  My son and I are both very grateful that we found The Mental Edge."
 
~ Ellen Paulseth, Parent
 
 Mental Edge Athlete of the Month
 
After having the privilege of working with many athletes over the years we have decided to name a Mental Edge Athlete of the Month each month. As a staff we talk through the  athletes we are working with and come up with one that embodies the concepTy Simcoets we teach and values we stand for.

 
Joe Rehkamp
Senior Breck High School

Joe Rehkamp has been a four-year player on the Breck Hockey team. He has been a captain for two years and is regarded as one of the top senior players in the state. But what makes Joe so special is his work ethic and dedication. He is a tireless worker with incredible self-discipline and focus. Joe has worked hard at his Mental Toughness Skills and because of this he has reaped the benefits of being able to play under pressure, maintain his confidence, and persevere through some points of great challenge. Joe is a team player and constantly looks to make those around him better. Because of hard work and focus, along with talent, Joe accepted an invitation to play at the Air Force Academy in 2011 and will play with the USHL's Fargo team next year. We congratulate Joe Rehkamp for being our March Athlete of the Month!


 
 Shaun Goodsell
The Truth is Intriguing

 
Shaun Goodsell, MA
Senior Performance Coach
 
Shaun@MentalEdgeNow.com

 
Over the past twenty plus years I have spent thousands of hours with teenagers, parents and coaches. The time spent has taught me that many teenage athletes are hungry for quality feedback that is descriptive, specific, and informed. The more kids get this type of feedback the more they are equipped to direct their physical and mental energy towards improving, as well as, leveraging strengths. This seems to unleash energy, engagement, and passion that many coaches and parents are often surprised to see, yet, scratch their heads on how to replicate.

What is truthful is that "the truth is intriguing". What is false is "encouragement is the answer to every struggle a kid has". When we as coaches and parents give truthful feedback in an intriguing manner (even though that feedback might create pain) we often set kids free from unrealistic expectations, unnecessary pressure, and engage them in ways we have not been able to in the past. Let me share an example. Many hockey players go into games with personal expectations of themselves that they should be impact players. In their minds that means scoring or tallying points. However, many of these players get discouraged game in and game out only to be told to" be patient it will come". The truth is there are very few impact players and this player may be best served by being told they do not currently possess the skills to be an impact player. To a player that most likely has experienced frustration and disappointment, they might be set free to now excel in other ways because they were told the truth.

It is my belief that we better serve our young athletes by telling them the truth. The truth truly does set you free!

If you are looking to sharpen YOUR Mental Edge and want to learn more about creating a strategy that maximizes your personal strengths, please email Dawn@MentalEdgeNow.com today!

Shaun
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For more information regarding this topic or to schedule a complimentary 30-minute telephone consultation with Shaun, please call Dawn today at 763 439 5246.
 
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Justin JohnsonBattling the Play-off Nerves
Justin Johnson, BA, Performance Coach
Justin@MentalEdgeNow.com

 

We've all heard the horror stories, sleepless nights, loss of appetite, vomiting in the locker room, ulcers and even nervous breakdowns. Being an athlete means joining those who have fought the demons of competition and its demands since the dawn of the sports. Psychologists use the terms arousal and anxiety but it's more commonly known in athletic circles as jitters, butterflies, or just plain nerves. In this installment I'd like to shed some light on this physical and psychological phenomenon that is as familiar to athletes as sweat.

First, it is important to understand having a feeling of arousal is actually a good thing. It is a signal to your body that you care about the upcoming events. In fact, when it comes to performing at or near peak it is far better to experience a level of arousal than to be emotionally flat. So to spend time and energy working to eliminate arousal prior to competition is actually counterproductive.

Arousal vs. Nerves
Though it may be difficult to recognize there is a slight difference between arousal and nerves. The sensation you feel prior to competition comes from the sum of what you are thinking about most. Therefore what you think about will determine the type of feeling you will have prior to competition. To help you separate a helpful dose of arousal that leads to peak performance from the harmful overwhelmed feeling of nervousness that stifles performance, let's take a look at the type of thinking that would generate each feeling.

Arousal/ Helpful                       Nerves/ Harmful
Look forward to competing        I hope I don't make a mistake
Excited to display skill               Our opponent is good & I don't feel ready
Anticipating playing well            Am I good enough?

The majority of athletes who report having an overwhelming feeling of nervousness before and during games do so because their thoughts become consumed with trying to predict what may happen once they begin play. Will I be ready? Will I play well? Who is watching? I hope I don't make a mistake. In addition to feeling nervous, they will also unintentionally be sending negative messages to their body. For example, if you think to yourself "I hope I don't make a mistake", more than likely the image you see in your head when you say that is one of you making a mistake. Although your intentions are good your body is going to follow and pay attention to the image rather than the intention. Thus creating both a nervous feeling and a troubling message for your body to follow.

So how do you put yourself in a position to experience the type of arousal that actually sets you up for peak performances?  First and foremost pay attention to what you are thinking about prior to competition. If you feel nervous because you've been thinking about failing, then change it. Focus on a part of your game you are confident in and think about how that part will help you play well. In addition to how you think, don't forget to tap into some of the pillars of mental toughness.


Pre-Game Nerves Checklist
Have a routine you can trust:  the regular season should help you refine and develop your routine so regardless of importance of game you have comfort in consistent preparation.
Develop quality practice habits: through quality practice habits the confidence in your ability to execute under pressure will increase.
Focus on what you control: much of the mental energy athletes waste is by thinking about events they have no control over. Focus on what you can do and what you control.

By paying close attention to the type of thoughts you have prior to competition and developing the type of habits included on the checklist, you will consistently find yourself amongst the breed of athletes anxiously awaiting the opportunity to display their skill and compete!

Justin
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Academic Mentoring
HIGH IMPACT ACADEMIC MENTORING

 

Our dynamic one-on-one academic mentoring offers students academic learning skills such as: time management, writing, organization, goal setting, reading, note taking and self evaluation. Subject-specific tutoring is available in the following areas: reading, basic math, social sciences, and others by request. This program will fit students from 1st grade through college level.

Shannon Tilley, Mental Edge Academic Mentor, has experience as a learning specialist at the University of Minnesota. There she worked primarily with the men's hockey team but also supported students from the football, soccer, and gymnastics teams. Shannon is a PhD candidate in the Educational Psychology program at the University of Minnesota with a focus on learning and cognition. She also has experience as a department chair and assistant professor at Brown College and has been an academic advisor at both St. Cloud State University and Capella University.

To learn more about High Impact Academic Mentoring please call Dawn today at 763 439 5246.

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Congratulations to all our Mental Edge Athletes and their teams in making it to the MN State High School Hockey Tournement!  Good Luck!

Shaun and Dawn Goodsell



 
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